10/02/2009

Travel Work Kids Life

Per my usual opening, things have been crazy. Our week away was wonderful. It's never very relaxing traveling with kids, but it was a week at the beach.

Then, we get home and all hell breaks loose. I worked 65 hours the week after we got home. I was preparing a program for work for about 30 young girls from the DC public High Schools. They came to our firm and had a career day of sorts - with individualized counseling and all that. It was a great program, but the logistics of it all were hell. And because I had been out the week before on vacation, it was double-hell. I worked so much and didn't see the kids.

That backed up to working the even on the Saturday. Then, on Monday morning, I boarded a train to New York City, where I stayed until Wednesday night. I got home Wednesday night before Bailey went to bed (Kelly kept her up). Then last night, I had to work a bit late. Tonight, I will leave early...provided that no work comes in late.

All of this is part of the transition away from my old job (MCLE Coordinator in the Attorney Development Department) to my new job (Business Development Coordinator in the BD Department). This is a completely new area of work for me and the time in NY was spent training. I have more information than I could ever actually process and I am learning as I go. Meanwhile, I am trying to train my replacement.

Oh, and raise my kids and be a wife.

I am really looking forward to this weekend. No work. Just my family. I need the time.

Everyone is doing well. Bailey seems to have migrated away from the terrible two phase for right now. She's being sweet. She's listening. She's just been a perfect angel. Connor is growing in leaps and bounds. He was sick again this week, with another double ear infection. This is prompting a visit to the Ear, Nose & Throat specialists. We're hoping to avoid tubes, but at this point, his ear infections are too frequent. And, because he's such a laid back kid, he doesn't start complaining about them until they are raging ear infections. And that is dangerous. THAT is what causes ear damage.

Kelly and I are hanging in there. Occasionally we yell across the chasm that separates us and we're both clinging to the knowledge that we'll find each other when this part of our lives is finished. Craziness is not great for relationships. But, we are in it together.

That's it for now. Work calls.

1 comment:

Karen B Prosser said...

Mikki,

Congrats on your new position. It sounds very exciting and nerve-racking to be learning the ropes, raising children, trying to be a good partner, and have time for yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear about Connor's ear infections. We had many of those with Amy and they are a total bitch. Our pediatrician didn't believe in the tubes and used antibiotics to treat. As a result, she has had a lot of irritable bowl syndrome and her docs are pretty sure the lining of her intestines was damaged by the constant antibiotics. There are always these unintended consequences.
New York must have been intense. It is such a go go city anyway.
I hope you have a long, leisurely weekend with kith and kin and hardly any work to speak of.
Karen